Even though there are no specific rules on how to dress for your lifestyle encounters, there are still some guidelines that a couple may want to use to feel better about their presence during their lifestyle encounters. After all, the way you look and present yourself in the lifestyle plays an important role when you meet others.

One of the more common occasions when a couple pays most attention to what they wear is a date with a couple who they are meeting for the first time. For a no strings attached introduction, most couples prefer to look classy yet sexy. You want to make yourselves attractive to the couple you're meeting, at the same time you don't want to give them an impression that there could be more in that particular evening. Dressing too sexy could be perceived by others as a green light to take the encounter to the next level even if you have told them otherwise before the date. If you're very open to what can happen, you may want to skip to the next part where we'll discuss the first sexual encounter dress style.

No strings attached dates is usually "dinner and drinks" kind of a deal. You may want to dress the way you usually would for a dinner at a nice restaurant or a non-formal event. That way men can still have their top buttons undone and women can show some cleavage and legs. Bursting way out of your top and having a "too short" of a dress - where people in the restaurant can look up your skirt without even trying - are some things that may give you unnecessary attention from others as well as make the couple you're with uncomfortable.

If you are going to meet a couple for more than just a dinner, your wardrobe choice will be a bit different. Of course, it depends if you're going to meet at a public place first and have dinner or you're meeting at someone's home right away.

If you prefer to do the dinner or dancing thing first, you should probably tone down your appearance a little, just so you don't become a center of everybody's amusement at a restaurant or a dance club. However, you can still look and act sexy. "Easy access" clothes is something that is very popular on this kind of public dates where both couples are starting to get sexual before they go behind closed doors. "Easy access" type of outfits is something that one would wear to allow quick and easy access for one of your partners to get a little sexual in the place where you may only have several seconds to enjoy that quick encounter, or in the place where you can only do it hidden like under the table or under the clothes. For example, some women don't wear underwear with their skirts or a bra under their tops so if their date sits close to them, his ( or her ) hands can easily slip in to play discretely while still in the public place. Sometimes not everybody at your table is even aware that the partner next to them is engaging in something more than a conversation with their new friends underneath the table. That makes it for even more exciting things to tell each other after the night is over and you're back in your bedroom sharing your memories of the evening.

However, if you're meeting at your or your date's home, you can wear anything you want. Anything from regular clothes that you know will come off soon to something really sexy like short shorts and a bra. Many times women would bring change of clothes with them as a little "fashion" show is a good way to break the ice.

Going to a swing party or a swing club is something that different couples do expecting different outcomes. What you wear should also be different depending on what you're looking for that particular evening. If you are a couple who is just checking out the scene and is not really looking to play, you may want to wear something that was described above for the no strings attached first date. However, if you're looking to play on premise, this is definitely the time to wear all the clothes that you can never wear anywhere else.

The way you dress for your encounters will be a sign to others about the type of intentions that you have for the evening. So, pick your outfits carefully, but make sure you're comfortable walking around in them during your evening. It's one thing to wear a sexy outfit in front of a mirror at home and it's completely different when you find yourself wearing it in front of a group of strangers. So, stay sexy, play safe and enjoy your encounters!